Elaine Sihera
Bio
British Empowerment Coach/Public speaker/DEI Consultant. Author: The New Theory of Confidence and 7 Steps To Finding And Keeping 'The One'!. Graduate/Doctor of Open Univ; Postgrad Cambridge Univ. Keen on motivation, relationships and books.
Stories (122/0)
How Do You Avoid 'Being Needy' In A Relationship?
It's quite simple: You find someone who matches your needs! There really is no such thing as being ‘needy’. We all have needs as human beings, some more pronounced than others. We are not clones or robots, so we won’t all match in exact needs! People who are labelled as ‘needy’ are in the wrong relationships, being matched with someone who doesn’t share their particular needs.
By Elaine Siheraabout a year ago in Humans
Do Some People Prefer To Be Unhappy?
Personally, I don’t think they ‘prefer’ to be unhappy.They just don’t know how to be happy, or they believe they do not ‘deserve’ to be happy, and so find it difficult to make changes for the better. In fact, remaining unhappy saves them from extra anxiety, or having to please anyone else by complying with their expectations.
By Elaine Siheraabout a year ago in Humans