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Kristen Viscardi
Bio
I’m just a lady who still believes in dreams manifesting. I’ve raised my 3 kids as a single mom working multiple jobs and now I am looking for what makes me happy.
Stories (31/0)
I am allowing myself to be seen, to be vulnerable
Have you reached the pinnacle of your life when you start to ask yourself that hard question, “Am I truly happy?” You have presented yourself one way and now you are trying to convince yourself that there is something more. There is something so uniquely special about you that is different, something you have not tapped into yet. What is it worth to stay the course and take the safe road? Isn’t it worth taking the risk to bring your soul to a different level – to take that leap of faith into the unknown and risk it all?
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Motivation
Do you ever wake up with an anxiety that paralyzes you with fear?
Do you ever wake up with an anxiety that paralyzes you with fear? A feeling that sends your heart racing, and your mind on repetitive thoughts of lack. Somehow, you thought that this morning would be different, you made sure to be grateful before closing your eyes the night before, and did your best to be hopeful. Just like the day before, and the day before that, you are on a merry-go-round of sadness, fear, anxiety, and anger. When will this stop? What more can I do to take action for my happiness?
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Motivation
A special connection from the past
You are thinking about that special connection from the past. He decided to walk away and give up on the relationship. You felt a deep connection to him, and in your gut, you know that he did not walk away because he did not love you. Either way, you are questioning your trajectory and what you should do next. You want to start anew but you are having a hard time doing so. There is a constant background feeling connecting you to him. If you could just turn off those feelings like a switch so you could move forward. There is nothing worse than wanting to move on but feeling stuck.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans
I’ve grown too strong to take you back
I’ve grown too strong to slip back into the abyss of self-doubt and unworthiness. I’ve taken control of my life to see endless possibilities instead of dead-end roads. I’ve nurtured my soul and found a reason to smile again. I’ve sat in my sadness and learned to overcome the spiraling fears of loneliness. I’ve trained myself to be assertive and no longer be used as a doormat. I’ve learned to embrace the moment instead of being depressed over my past. I’ve let go of people I’ve loved with all my heart to comprehend that I need to love myself more. I’ve taken chances and got out of my comfort zone to see miracles occur before my eyes. I’ve listened to my own gut instead of being persuaded by other people’s beliefs.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans
Stand in your Greatness, be the Badass Chick that you are
Stop being a doormat to other people because of your insecurities. Start living your life with confidence and being the best version of you to attract the same back to you. You can’t expect to manifest the life or the people you want in your reality by sitting on your bed visualizing and feeling sorry for yourself. Be unapologetically selfish with going after the life you want. If you want results to appear, then you need to take assertive action. You must be willing to change and shift your state of being to derive the life you seek.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Motivation
Life has repeated in cycles that are hard to deny
Circumstances have brought undeniable heartache and sadness. Life has repeated in cycles that are hard to deny our accountability in it. There have been so many years of rejection after we gave so much love and attention to others. It would appear looking back with the blatantly obvious evidence that we gave our power away. We trusted perhaps in the wrong people, but that is part of our character that is beautiful.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans
Love will always find its way back to you
Love is love. It makes you lose control and see things in euphoric ways. It grabs your heart and takes you prisoner. It doesn’t see age and time stands still. It looks past culture, it looks past color, and it soothes your soul.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans
I am discovering who I am without you
I won’t say what has already been said before. I don’t need your honesty; I don’t need your empty words today. Just take my hand, hug me, kiss me like a lover, and don’t let me go. I don’t need you to be my friend, I need to be lost with you inside my heart. Every breath, every heartbeat, every moment is yours to have. Stop dragging my fears out the door and watching my heart break just a little bit more. You have my head spinning, and I feel out of control.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans
Seeking happiness in the now
Isn’t the best course of action in life to seek happiness in the now? I believe that as people, we have been conditioned to look at what we don’t have and focus on that. It seems counterproductive to me, because the more you think about the lack of something, the more it won’t show up in your life. If you are searching for a partner, searching for more money, searching for an abundance of anything, aren’t you affirming to the Universe that you don’t have it and you want more of what you don’t have? You’ve already established your trajectories; you live in a world where you’re already accustomed to your wants, so create the feeling of being prosperous now. If you can apply feeling good, focusing on the positives, you will pave that path for your creations to come to you! If you’re in a relationship that isn’t serving you, aren’t you focusing on the negative aspects of that partner? What traits of your partner do you think are being mirrored back to you, then? The good ones? I would 100% say no to that question!
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Motivation
Still struggling with the loss of him
It’s been almost a year since he left and today has been rough, to say the least. I understand these days will show up like an unwelcome relative on your day off, but I am drained of feeling depressed. I look at people who can move forward so quickly and easily, almost like a train going from destination to destination, picking up and dropping off new people. I am more like the turtle trying to cross a major freeway and getting run over by every car passing by.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans
If I knew it was going to be the last time I was going to see you..
If I knew it was going to be the last time I saw you, I would have hugged you a little bit tighter. If I knew it was going to be the last time I saw you, I would have stayed awake and kissed you longer. If I knew it was going to be the last time that I saw you, I would have reminisced and stayed up all night dancing and listening to music. If I knew it was going to be the last time that I saw you, I would have told you how much I loved you and not held back my feelings. If I knew it was going to be the last time that I saw you, I would have studied your face so I could remember every detail. If I knew it was going to be the last time that I saw you, I would have thanked you for all the love you brought into my life. But you knew it was the last time I was going to see you, and I didn’t.
By Kristen Viscardi3 years ago in Humans