The dreaded "Law of Expectation"!

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The expectation is what the heart wants, try to pay to get the invincible.

In life in the world, there will always be a lot of goals, and people on the way to completing these goals will have an emotion, this emotion is sometimes excited, sometimes exciting, sometimes decadent, and sometimes full of hope, which is the expectation. Expectations are common to everyone, they are the driving force of life, with expectations to have a colorful future.

Perhaps when you are still full of expectations of the world, there are always "people" to splash you with cold water, expectations are too false, and unrealistic, it is better to resign yourself to fate, which is more real.

At this point, do you believe it or not?

The law of expectation tells us that when we have a very strong expectation of something, the person or thing we expect will appear. According to this theorem, it seems that we can temporarily think that if a person has self-confidence, and he is sure of his expectations, then he will inevitably develop in the direction of their expectations.

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The famous American psychologist Wiesenthal designed experiments in 1966, hoping to study the impact of the experimenter's prejudice on the experimenter. One of the most notable studies was an experiment on the intelligence tests of elementary school children and the effect on their cues. Wiesenthal and his colleagues asked teachers to give intelligence tests to their elementary school students. They told the teachers that some of the children in their classes were in the category of those who were bound to make a difference in the future but just discovered their talents later than normal children.

Afterwards, they told the teachers the names of these students. Wiesenthal in the per-experimental conjecture that these students are considered "late bloomers" after their academic performance is likely to improve. In reality, however, there was no such thing as a late bloomer in the experiment. All of the "late bloomers" were randomly selected by psychologists from the class list, and there were no significant differences between them and other students in the class.

However, the experiment eventually changed significantly. At the end of the semester after Wiesenthal's experiment, when the experimental team administered a group IQ test to the randomly selected students, they found that their overall academic performance was generally better than the first results, and in some cases the improvement was significant!

But what was the cause of this result? He believes that it is likely to be attributed to the role of teachers. The teachers were implied by the Wiesenthal group that the potential of these students was there, and the teachers may have subconsciously recognized their potential, so they gave them special care and attention, which eventually led to the improvement of these students' performance.

This is an example of the Law of Expectation, which shows that having expectations makes you understand what you want as if the teacher has expectations for these "late bloomers" and wants them to become even better. A little work, a little gain, and expectations will always take you to find what you want.

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There was this senior army general who was ordered to visit the border troops for a month. He came to the troops and saw that the soldiers at rest were bullying a short, thin-bodied soldier. He saw that the group was using him as a target to practice their newly learned martial arts punches. The small soldier had to keep dodging in order not to be beaten up, but even so, he was still swinging a few heels.

However, the little soldier would quickly raise his head each time he was put over and stare at his opponent with a stubborn look on his face. At this point, the soldiers saw the general and all stopped. Everyone cowardly lowered their heads at the thought that they might be scolded. I saw the general striding up to the small soldier, patting him on the shoulder and saying, "Just now you looked as if you were making me look at my younger self, with iron-clad pride in my bones." With that, he nodded and patted his shoulder fiercely, only to see the small soldier raise his head and look at the general who had made great achievements with astonishment. Similarly, the other soldiers around were also surprised by the general's reaction.

A month of inspection soon came to an end, the general was put into work inspection, and gradually forgot about it. However, at a troop exercise before the general left, a small soldier's outstanding fighting style commendation conquered all the soldiers present. Not only were his movements spot on, but the quickness, ruthlessness, and accuracy of his punches were overwhelming. The general looked at the stubbornness and arrogance in this soldier's eyes and immediately guessed who it was.

As expected, it was not long before the general met the small soldier again at the army headquarters when he was awarding medals to soldiers of various units for their war achievements. He had taken credit for a mission in which he was so agile that he not only subdued his opponent but also helped three of his comrades escape from danger.

When the general shook his hand, the small soldier said excitedly, "Sir, although you may not remember me, I appreciate your encouragement and I will work harder to make sure you are not disappointed." The general was very surprised, he would not have expected that he was helping the small soldier to relieve a casual sentence of guidance and encouragement, it gave the small soldier such great expectations and courage, but also let him become so good.

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In the eyes of the "past" expectations are very false. But the small soldier's experience is a powerful refutation of this view. Whether intentionally or inadvertently, when a person is placed on high expectations, he will have hope and motivation, when this belief into power, expectations will no longer be just what you want to get but will become what you can get.

The law of expectation tells us that what the heart desires are invincible. However, without actions, nothing can be accomplished, and Yugo practiced his expectations with his actions. If you want something, you should pay for it. The only way to get the result you want is to act.

On the other hand, the reason why people's expectations can bring endless motivation, there will also be support and encouragement from family. Yugo Tanisha expected that his children and grandchildren would continue, and in today's life, we also have expectations from our parents, seniors, and teachers.

The expectations of others are a kind of conscious affirmation, and then the positive consciousness will motivate us to take action and move closer to the expectations after the positive consciousness has a counter effect on the action. At the same time, expectations also come from the self's expectations of the self, and the motivation generated by one's expectations is even greater.

Psychologists point out that the law of expectation is an expression of the power of the mind, but also a belief. When a sense of expectation of something is positively fed back to the self, the expectation is no longer empty talk, it is what you want and what you can get.