SINISTER Soldier
Bio
Sharing my experiences as a Dom in the BDSM lifestyle in the hopes of helping people who want to learn more about this lifestyle and to help people understand this life in a Dom/Sub dynamic based on my own personal experiences.
Stories (4/0)
Your rights to use a SAFEWORD.
One thing I continue to push and am still very surprised to see that so many people don’t know about, is their ability to use a safeword. Your safeword is absolutely crucial because it is how you maintain the control in the dynamic, as well as during play. This is what you need to know about your rights to use a safeword. Please read this and understand that this is not only your right in this lifestyle, but it is your LEGAL right to use it.
By SINISTER Soldier3 years ago in Filthy
How to find a dom.
It is important to know what kind of sub you are. Different submissives will have different interests. Finding out who you are as a submissive is a critical step in finding a good dominant. If you don’t know who you are, you are not going to be able to find the one who is right for you.
By SINISTER Soldier3 years ago in Filthy
10 Ideas for rewarding your submissive
Part of having a submissive and being a good dom is keeping your sub happy, feeling wanted, feeling needed and even feeling owned. One thing that has always shown up as a greater need from the submissives is being rewarded and praised, not just being punished. Rewarding your submissive is a terrific way to encourage good behavior through positive reinforcement.
By SINISTER Soldier3 years ago in Filthy
10 Ideas to Make Your Sub/Slave Feel Owned
Maintaining ownership of your Sub/Slave Dom/Sub relationships are very different than a typical relationship in several ways. The dynamic itself reflects a control and care that are not common in “vanilla” relationships. Sometimes, a submissive will want to feel owned. This could be for several different reasons. Regardless of the situation, it is important to understand that consent is a mutual barrier that should not ever be broken.
By SINISTER Soldier3 years ago in Filthy
