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Dealing with breakups

Heartbreak

By Daniel Genrwot Published about a month ago 2 min read
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DEALING WITH BREAKUPS
Calling it quits with the one you love is one of the most painful experiences you may face in your life. Heartbreak can feel like a physical ache, and it can be challenging to navigate the emotions that come with the end of a significant relationship. While everyone copes with breakups differently, there is one method that can help you heal faster and potentially even make your ex question their decision - the power of silence.
In today's age, many people turn to social media to share their heartbreak the moment it happens. Some may even resort to constantly checking up on their ex, trying to stay connected in any way possible. However, giving yourself the silent treatment after a breakup can be a game-changer. By cutting off all communication with your ex and refraining from posting about the breakup online, you are taking back control of your emotions and giving yourself the space you need to heal.
Implementing the no contact rule, along with embracing silence, can have powerful effects on both you and your ex. By resisting the urge to reach out or interact with your ex, you are sending a strong message of independence and self-respect. Your ex may start to wonder why you're not chasing them or seeking their attention, which can create feelings of curiosity and even regret on their end. Plus, staying quiet allows you the time to reflect on the relationship and prioritize self-care and self-improvement.
The power of silence can give you the upper hand after a breakup. By staying silent and refraining from seeking contact with your ex, you are showing them that you value yourself and your emotional well-being above all else. Your ex may begin to question their decision to end things and even start to miss your presence in their life. Additionally, maintaining silence can help you move on more quickly and with a sense of dignity, rather than appearing desperate or needy in front of your ex.
In conclusion, while the pain of a breakup may be inevitable, how you choose to handle it can make a significant difference in your healing process. By embracing silence and the no contact rule, you are giving yourself the time and space needed to come to terms with the end of the relationship. Remember that your worth and happiness should not be dependent on someone else, and by prioritizing self-love and self-respect, you can emerge from this challenging time stronger and more resilient than ever before.

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