Self-doubt: the plunderer of dreams in the womb of young souls

How often do you hear the phrase self-doubt has killed more dreams than failure ever will? Our worth is often determined by the external factors that surround us. We are all conditioned to follow societal norms and adhere to the timeline that society wants us to follow.

The ones who follow the unconventional path are named as unsuccessful or appalling for not fitting in with the norms. Validation from others is what we need to grow and sustain. How many of us have been taught that? nurtured with the teaching of not being too loud or too bold.

There are voices in our heads that constantly remind us of how unworthy we are to achieve our dreams. Whenever we achieve something we have worked hard for, our imposter syndrome kicks in and tricks us into believing that it was a mere coincidence of luck and not our hard work and capability.

We are our own worst enemies when we don’t credit ourselves for the growth we have accomplished and the journey that is individualistic to us.

Self-doubt chains us to our comfort zone and keeps us from reaching our highest potential. And the world we live in would use our self-doubt as a catalyst for our downfall. It is essential for us to know that the world perceives you as the version of yourself you hold for yourself.

The next time you doubt yourself, here are some reminders to recenter yourself and calm your anxious thoughts.

Know that your journey is unique to you and that you do not need to adhere to anyone’s perceivable reality of your life.

You are not obligated to work according to the set timelines; everything meant for you will happen at the right time. We live in absolute time zones that have their own timelines.

When self-doubt kicks in, replace it with action. Remember, it is not about moving mountains every single day; it is about setting small goals and being consistent in your practise. Confidence builds itself on the foundation of the promises we keep to ourselves and others.

Learn to reflect on your growth. You are living the reality of at least one of your dreams that your past self yearned for to come true. Have faith in yourself and God. It will help you navigate through difficult times.

Lastly, it is okay to make mistakes. Mistakes and failures are evidence of you trying and putting yourself out there.

Improve yourself for yourself; there is absolutely nothing you have to prove to anyone.