10 solutions that make children integrate into life instead of phones

Written by: Asmaa Khalil


How do you make your son not be attracted to modern devices and social networking sites?!

After the French Revolution occurred, the era of the proletariat came, and machines replaced humans, and factories became content with the smallest number Of workers so that the role of humans is reduced to remains..


What I fear now for our children is that modern devices will completely replace humans, represented by fathers and mothers in particular, and the rest of the family in general.


Where is the true imprint of each son or daughter from the others? Everyone has become the same. Recently, I set my sights on a group of students as a random study on modern education.. I found it following..

The son who is thirsty for affection, who is not innovative, finds his mother using social media as much as possible Hours.. This means and indicates the absence of the role of pain in upbringing.. in addition to the absence of the father’s role as distress family..


So we must now start caring about our children...but rather caring about life! Yes, they are life. With their happiness, we are happy. And with their misery, we are miserable.

Parents must follow these steps to make our children give up the wrong habits that have spread recently.
It is the attraction of children, completely in mind and soul, to the means of communication and everything related to it.. It has become the upbringing of our children instead From us.. I will single out pain in the beginning, as it is the foundation of the family.. It has the following:

First: Using an image that makes it a role model for the children, such as the father, for example, and continues to motivate them by saying that their father will give them rewards when he comes from work, in exchange for the correct actions they do.

Second: Start with the mother herself by giving up addiction to social networking sites and not interacting with them except for work or asking about acquaintances or Recreation should be kept to a minimum, and she should not spend all day holding the phone in front of her children.

Third: Begin developing a plan for raising children, regardless of the age of the son or daughter, and seek and collect information about the best methods of raising children.

-Fourth: Education in the style of reward and punishment. Whoever follows the teachings will be rewarded and given gifts. Whoever violates will be punished by not giving him rewards. Punishment is not through the body, but by being deprived of going out for a walk or anything the son likes, because beating and blaming do not make men. .

- Fifth: Constant hugs and kisses... and not informing the son that if he excels, we will love him and if he does not excel
We do not love him.. The son’s mind will be linked to conditional love and he will know that his parents do not love him absolutely but because of it, and this will make his mind in an intellectual and emotional imbalance.

Sixth: Constant guidance. While telling some stories, children do not like direct advice. So how beautiful are the stories
Conveying the greatest messages, no matter how old the son is! .. Every age has its appropriate stories.. Even if the mother chooses on a daily basis a story that she has prepared in advance during lunch or dinner, instilling in her some values such as love of work, cooperation, and helping
others and love of country.


Seventh - and of course all the advice that everyone keeps hearing on a daily basis... which is not to quarrel with father and mother in front of the children, and not to talk about private matters, so that the children grow up without psychological complexes.

-- Eighth: Achieving a kind of entertainment parallel to the happiness that the phone brings to the child, such as going out for a walk on a regular basis and entertaining the child with what he likes.

Ninth: The mother should develop the child’s talents and play with him, such as when the children draw together and encourage him
To play a sports game, and be creative in making his time enjoyable. There are simple things and inventions that the son or daughter loves to share the pain with
With it, such as making colored candles... or making the arcade... or cooking a new food... or drawing on the board. Glass.. and there are many ideas on the Internet..

Tenth: The mother instills the spirit of work within the children through play. The most important thing is that the children’s lives have something that prevents them more than phones.




As for what the father does to correct his children correctly and try to attract them to life instead of the phone... it is as follows:
-First: The father must agree with the mother in her educational approach to the children. This is the most important point.

-Second: The father’s righteousness and good qualities, which make him a role model for his children.


-Third: Even though the father is busy all the time, he should be careful to stay at home with the children, as the presence of the father in...
The house is silent for a while...so the father tries to discuss with his children as much as possible, patting them on the shoulder, hugging them, and detailing his problems.
By working on behalf of his children...and let the father know that every behavior that comes from him is rooted
He has value in the minds of his children.


-Fourth: The father entertains his children as much as he can by taking them to relatives or any other means for outings and telling stories of the past.
In an interesting way, so that it is one of the alternative means for phone screens, which modern science continues to talk about day after day
Tell us about its damage.


Finally, children are a trust for which we are responsible. Their role in life is not only to give their families the title of father and mother. Rather, they are the building of a lifetime, so everyone must build his home with the best means.
There is nothing wrong with children having fun with games, phones, and engaging with social media... but not just for an hour, that is, a specific time of the day as a reward.
Today's children are tomorrow's men and women, so parents have a responsibility towards society that is not easy