How to Date to Marry

Dating in todays society is scary and can make you want to give up all together. Men can be extremely nonchalant and women can be overly emotional. Although I see myself marrying a man I am attracted to women as well. I have never been romantically involved with a women because just like my mentor Christopher Maurice Brown said in one of his latest songs Iffy(2022), "Can't trust these hos cause they iffy." In spite of the fact that he is calling them hos, women can be a bit invasive, standoffish and sneaky. That being said, you will read about how to date both a man and women to marry in a very unique and creative way while keeping your morals and values intact.

I date in 5's. I call them my "Starting Five", like a basketball team. Even though there are more players on the bench, your "Starting Five" gets most of your time, attention and affection. The qualities they should have are: generous, empathetic, trustworthy, good providers and they stand up for you! Those are just mine, you may have your own you would like to add to the list. I know you are thinking that juggling 5 people at once can be a bit of a headache, but that is only the case if you do not let them know up front.

Also if you are not being honest with yourself on what you want in a relationship. Corresponding on what Saweetie said in one of my favorite songs, Risky Ft Drako the Ruler (2021), "Fuck a fake n*gga and a pick me B*tch" .The way I interpreted this lyric was if he is being shady, move on and if she is being too clingy move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as soon as you see a red flag get a player off the bench.

Set a age you want to get married and go from there. A good thing to always remember is: It's chess not checkers! Learn how a Queen and King plays and move accordingly.

MVP VIBES (for people not waiting for sex until marriage):

Just like Steph Curry there is always a MVP on the team. That player gets the Cookie(vagina) or Monkey(penis). This person has checked everything on your quality list. Even if you are not ready for sex, touching and sexting counts. Just a little so they know what they would be getting in marriage.

MVP VIBES (sex until marriage)

I love a good cuddle buddy. Nothing sexual but laying together clothes on can be relaxing and a real vibe if you guys fall asleep together. Going skin-to-skin contact can deepen the connection. Finding Yoga poses that help with sex can be an activity that helps you bond and you will not be so shy when it is honey moon time.

In case you start catching deeper feelings for your MVP and want to get married but he/she is still playing the field. DO NOT PANICK! Just like Future said in a classic song, You Da Baddest Ft Nicki Minaj(2017) "You know you the baddest baby fuck them hos, we on a different planet girl it's fuck them hos". Yes, he is speaking about a women but it can be applied to both genders. Meaning you would not have fallen for him/her in such a manner if you did not think the feeling was mutual. He/she may not be ready or does not think they can fulfill your needs properly and may need more time to consider or get ready.

Lastly, never let a person or group of people tell you how you should date. It is your life and you only get one. Live it up!!!